Reflections

Fatherlessness is the root of a lot of trauma today.

As someone who use to be deeply involved in the LGBT lifestyle and lived as a stud, the root (wound) most of the time is the result of rejection, fear, abandonment or hurt. Dressing masculine is a manufactured sense of protection…safety. The clothes are external and reflect something deeper, internally. True Father’s are protectors. The void of Fatherlessness creates a vacuum thats filled with lies from the enemy himself all built on fear.

When a woman does not feel safe, she manufactures that “safety net” in other forms. Maybe a tough exterior shell. It may not be the lgbt route, but could manifest in desiring validation/love from other men. It may manifest in having multiple sexual relationships. She’s not able to operate in her true womanhood/feminity because of dysfunction/brokenness. A distortion is created of what Love is.